Sitting in computer class, learning Microsoft office package, trying my hands at different fonts available, scribbled down few lines in a poetic style:
“Life is a book, read it;
Life is a game, play it;
Life is a dish, taste it;
Life is lesson, learn it”
Me now : While thinking of all that stuff, ” Oh please cut the crap, what were you trying to do, you ain’t Shakespeare and that’s anything but poetry and last thing to be beautiful 😁. But as they say you grow only when little wisdom is added with every passing day, I have realised one thing – there’s no need to draw comparisons and parallels, life is meant to be only lived.
Are we living in true sense? We eat, drink, sleep – are we living? We are chasing our dreams, celebrating occasions, mourning losses, hating people, loving things, loving to hate but are we essentially living? Perhaps NO. We are just filling the gap between our date of birth and death which is nothing but a number. And everything in between in our lives is about numbers – age, number of hours you sleep for, calories taken, weight gained, targets achieved, number of bedrooms in-house, digits in salary, number of likes and follows on social media, price of accessories….. Typically everything under the sun, but where is life in our lives which is beyond any such quantification?
Happiness is the essence of life: All our actions in our lives aim at attaining happiness. Grabbing an ice cream at the wee hours of day gives happiness, parking that newly launched beast in the backyard is happiness, catching that extra five minutes of nap when the alarm is hell-bent on throwing you out of the bed is happiness. I can go on. What’s happiness for me might be a matter of indifference for you. It’s a subjective issue. But everything mentioned (not mentioned for that matter) doesn’t even constitute an iota when it comes to the real essence of life – the Eternal Happiness, that lies and comes from within, that’s once attained never dries up, the one which our supremacy intend us to unleash from within.
It’s not that we are completely aloof or oblivious from what our destination is. Accidentally listening to spiritual talks, our festivals, times of distress do draw our attention towards important questions like “What’s the meaning of my life” , “how to get closer to the one and only supreme power called God”. But again for majority of us (that includes me, I am not ashamed to admit the obvious) that’s a passing cloud before we fall to the trap of materialistic bliss of this world.
How to march towards Eternal Happiness?
Well that’s a continuous evolution before He can say that you have finally evolved. And to begin with it’s an uphill task for sure. That reminds me of the fact that our skin is weak that gives in easily before our souls could reap the fruits of eternal happiness. Prayer, chanting, meditation are the three tools to keep our efforts from falling apart midway.
And here comes two fulcrum to utilize the aforesaid tools. Two simple rules to apply in life:
Act without expectation: When was the last time that you dropped a message wishing your long-lost friend without expecting a reply? Or when was the last time you just picked up a big boulder impeding the way just to make a safe path for others without expecting appreciation? Such instances for us may be countable on fingers for we all are so self-absorbed and self-centered that we want every action of ours to be noticed even if it is for near and dear ones. When expectations are tied to our actions, non-fulfillment of such expectations brings in gloom. So the first rule of our journey towards Eternal Happiness is to act without expecting. Begin with petty things and closed circles, practice and practice, just do your part with all your heart and soul in it. See the difference of being indifferent to the laurels, soon criticism won’t affect your inner peace.
Forget and Forgive: How I wish the first part was easy. I simply can’t forget the words exchanged in the heat of argument that occurred two years back then how to expect (again expectation 😁) people to forget the misdeeds of others directed towards them? But without forgetting the past forgiving stands next to impossible. And if one can’t forgive, can’t let the baggage of past and grudges go, there’s no way that a person could march ahead in the path shown by the supreme power. Forgiveness is a way of easing the burden from our souls that renders us from being able to identify God in every soul. And with God all around us what’s there to stop the stream of inner happiness from flowing. When nothing but change is constant why let the past be stagnant in our present to disturb the future?
The idea is to commence the process of detachment from emotions that could lead us to sin and finally deviate us from the way that could lead us to our Sole (soul) destination. Indifference to the happiness, worldly acknowledgements, tranquility of mind in adverse, in-your-face situations are the signatures of successful lives in true sense that comes from practice of these two simple rules.
Let’s inculcate these habits, , let’s just live life to the core of it and not just enact it.