Let us first understand – why life is an exam?
Is it really an Exam?
Who is judging you?
Do you have any say on this?
It is true that life is challenging, but we all have different challenges to deal with. I might not be dealing with what you have, neither you will be dealing with what I have to. We all have varying hurdles to live through our daily routine.
We all tend to overlook into others lives, and make our life much more challenging by complaining about what we lack, ignoring what we already possess.
So why do we fail in the exam called life? Ever thought on the same?
There are several reasons, why we fail in life :
- We all are scared of failing.
- We listen more to others than our innermost desires.
- We compare ourselves with the better, assuming that we are just nothing.
- We just want to be a copy of others, than being different.
Being Scared of Failing
If we try, then only we can decide, whether it is fun or not. Without even trying, assuming things to be difficult is the first step of failure. Take life as a challenge that is when you will cherish every moment of it. Wade off the fear of failing and prepare yourself to experience a new you.
Have you ever seen a baby stopping to try to walk, upon falling several times?
It is simply because, the baby is not scared to walk, even when it might fall a couple of times. Success is not an easy thing to achieve. Growing up, most of us have lost that inquisitiveness in life.
Turning Deaf to the innermost feelings
Taking advice from the wrong is going to lead you into much more trouble. We all tend to take advice from people who do not have a single knowledge of what we do. And finally, even when our heart desires a lot, we just break away from those innermost feelings.
Don’t you think that is the worst part of being in a challenge?
If you want to make life challenging, challenge the people around you who are stuck in monotony and show them how life can be happier with a choice that glows your heart.
Comparison- The slow poison on life
Even though we all know that we have varied things, aims, desires, dreams, passion, lifestyle everything including habits, we still tend to compare.
Yes, Comparison kills the joy of life.
One may have, a luxurious life but may not be completely happy. At the same time, a poor one may not have the luxury but has a peaceful life. It is all about how you take things. Identifying what you actually need and what makes you sufficient is important.
The moment you realise that you are different from others and you chose to be different, then it is a grand success.
We all even must have encountered several instances wherein parents compare children with other children and forget that their own child possesses something unique. In such cases, the child loses its self-confidence and even fails at many things. Little do they realise that comparing the child to another one, is killing the joy in their life.
Let them be what they want.
We all are Copycats
We all just try to be a copy of the one near us or known to us. We never try to even change a little bit, because we assume that , something that is being called perfect among us is an epitome to be followed.
Being different is a challenge.
Life throws different challenges to all, and we all try to copy, forgetting that we all have different question papers to solve.
As I was saying,
Life is an interesting challenge to endure. Making every moment challenging is even much more fun. The moment we push ourselves outside the glass wall of others’ expectations, we are going to make life interesting.
At least at one point of life, choose to take up a challenge. It might change your perspective of life.