Anger – an emotion, expressing disagreement exceeding the level of upset, exhibiting disgust to be precise. This expression could be coupled with raised decibel, raised hand and even worse.
Now the question is can such an emotion be counted as Sin or can it possibly lead someone to commit sin?Well, the answer is it depends.
When Anger Is Righteous: Everyone would agree with the fact that anger should be controlled. But there are instances in our life where not getting angry is just unjust. When we see weak and vulnerable getting hassled and our blood doesn’t get boiled there is a serious problem in us as a human. When injustice is having its way we must speak against it doesn’t matter if it is our anger, because it is righteous.
Anger and Us: When we are angry what we do? Let me tell you my example or experience:
- It is commonly said where there is love, anger and fights breed naturally, it’s just a part and parcel of relationships. And I think its true because I fought and fought badly with my mother, father, brother, they are the people who are close to my heart than rest of the world which is obvious. When my patience gave in I spewed venom in the fit of rage with the intention of putting my point across and being heard. In the due course of such arguments I ended up saying many things that I feel guilty of later, even today.
We all have such experiences in life where we have used words without understanding their impact. At the end we all have reconciled because of a bond called love but a sin is committed by our tongues because words once said cannot be taken back just as the arrows released from a bow.
Angry Society We Have Become: When a society is full of people having less to no control on their respective tempers we have an intolerant society. The minute but best example is what we see in road rage cases in Delhi. People don’t even hesitate to kill a person only because they are infuriated by a dent on their vehicle. Logically that dent can be repaired but a life gone cannot be brought back. But when anger dominates thinking, logic RIP. Mob lynchings, road rage killings, vandalism are anger driven sins where logical thinking and moralities are put on the back burner or even flushed down the drain. On contrary supported by ego, envy, greed.
When the motive inspiring our anger is self-centered – to hurt someone physically or emotionally just because of lack of agreement, we are guilty of committing a sin though we may say whatever we did was unintentional and in a fit of rage.
There’s one saying in Telugu:
” Tana kopam tanaki shatruvu,
Tana shaantame tanaki raksha”
Which means One’s anger is their own enemy and one’s calmness (as in state of mind) is their protection.
That’s so valid because actions taken with restless and agitated mind may lead one to commit sin/ crime (sin punishable by court of law) and the guilt never leaves heart (of the person is humane enough). Trying to keep calm in the moment of heat can avert many mishaps.
I shall start managing my anger, how about you?