I once affirmed to myself that I wanted to be a possibility of Inspiration. What did I mean when I affirmed so? I meant that I want people to be their best when they are with me in whatever relationship I have with them. This was quite a huge aspiration. But this aspiration continues to drive me every single day. 

So did I succeed? That is really difficult to judge because I cannot really say that somebody in my life is becoming a better person because of me. That would be just unfair to everybody to take away the credit of somebody else’s evolution journey. I can know this only when people come and tell me that something that I did helped them in their own journey to be the better version of themselves. 

Inspiring my readers

I have received a lot of feedback from my readers’ time and again about my articles helped them in their particular situations. Even if any article that I have written makes somebody change their mindset from negative to positive – I consider it a huge success. 

Recently, one of my ex-colleagues called me after reading one of my articles. I spoke to her after really a long time and she mentioned how the lockdown was wearing her out and reading this just changed the her perspective. And now she was willing to explore this dimension a lot more along with me. The article was about something that I learnt while reading an amazing book. The article was this one.

Even this particular article that I got quite a few texts and calls on was this one.

There have been many such instances where people called me or texted me specially to let me know that my article made a difference to them.

Inspiring my students

I was a teacher for a very short span of time. I took up some volunteering work when I was working with GE Healthcare. As part of this work, a group of volunteers taught basic computers and spoken English to 11th and 12th standard underprivileged kids. These kids were studying in Kannada medium government schools and most of them could not communicate basic English and teaching them computers was mainly a language issue. 

I took up the challenge of teaching them English communication and stumbled upon one big obstacle. These kids didn’t know English and I didn’t know Kannada. So, there was absolutely no medium for us to communicate at all. Still I took up the challenge believing that this would probably be my path to learn Kannada as well. So I struck a deal with them – they teach me Kannada and I would teach them English. Initially, it was quite a challenge mainly because I am not at all a quick learner of languages. But we figured out ways to communicate with each other. 

We discovered and played different mixed language games. We learnt together in this journey and I really grew close to this class of not more than 10 students. So close that they started sharing the stories of their teenage crushes with me. 

One of the girl’s parents decided to get her married to a guy 10 years older to her when she just turned 18. I was furious because this girl was really smart and was quite determined to take up an Accountant’s job.

We volunteers met her parents and surprisingly after a few meetings with them – we convinced them to wait for at least 2 more years and give her a chance to pursue a job. This girl and her friends were in tears of gratitude when her marriage was called off. 

This whole episode turned out to be great inspiration for many other volunteers. This wasn’t just my job, we were a team of 4 volunteers that was working determinedly for the future of those kids. And I believe this was probably the biggest difference I have made at the community level. 

Inspiring the people I work with

When I was interviewed for an entry into the current organization that I work with – I was asked a very deep question by one of the very senior members of the panel. He asked me “Apart from your technical skills, what value can you bring to our team?” And I replied “I will make sure that my colleagues work at the best of their ability”. I replied so because I was coming from a team that was highly toxic and was a reason for me to move on. Later on this senior member became a good buddy and he told me that this particular answer made them sure of their decision to hire me. 

It is extremely important to have a calm atmosphere at work. As a junior developer, I have worked in toxic environment for a few years and I realize how crushing that workload is. I decided when I grow up to be in senior position, I will do my best to keep toxicity out. 

The person who tends to respond to a situation instead of react to it – makes the best out of the situation no matter how negative it is. I have seniors who inspire me in this act of responding wisely always. When my team performs at their best and are full of appreciation for each other and me – I know that responding to the situation wisely works always. 

Inspiring my family

There is a lot that I want to write in this regard. I have seen my family members transform from very negative to very positive when I have been practicing responding to them instead of reacting. 

I know my behavior has inspired them to change their mindset. Unfortunately, I cannot allow myself to write more on this area without giving out the details of their lives. So, I will keep at it. 

Possibility of being an inspiration

As a child if somebody would have asked – how can you become an inspiration for people? I probably would have replied that I need to be somebody like Indira Gandhi or APJ Abdul Kalam, maybe I will have to do some great acts and have my biography published or maybe I will have to write many books. 

But now I realize, that all of us inspire each other in many different ways. It is a continuous transaction that happens in our lives with every other soul. A simple act of kindness or compassion can trigger a wave of inspiration in somebody. I get inspired by many and I do inspire many. We just need to notice these little things in life. 

One need not be a VIP to be an inspiration. A mere common person of this world is capable of inspiring by the little acts of humanity. 


The air looms heavy with sickness and death. Smiles seem to have faded away. Uncertainty of the next moment gives sleepless nights. Safety of loved ones has gained immense priority. With emotions running wild, sanity seems to be under a humongous threat. For those who have lost their loved ones or have managed to save their dear ones at the expense of a lifetime’s savings, the future looks bleak.

Words are not the best comforters in times as these. Talk of ringing in positivism with rich thoughts, well, that’s a momentary denial of reality as it stands. The world is not only grappling with a pandemic with an ever-mutating virus at its helm right now, it is also dealing with earthquakes, cyclones, typhoons, mice plagues, locust attacks, volcanic eruptions, bombings, shootings, rocket attacks – most of which have escaped mainstream coverage and viewer attention owing to the focus on the pandemic. Added to these are the rapidly dwindling jobs, steep rise in unemployment and poverty and a proportional increase in crimes – all of which already existed in a pre-COVID world.

Coming to crimes, what shocked me this week was the news of the clothes of deceased COVID patients being stolen and sold by a racquet, that was busted!! Even infectious clothes are not spared by obnoxious minds!! The organ trading industry has been flourishing discreetly behind closed doors since the time COVID deaths rose in numbers. Ghastly rapes continue.

When the picture is so gloomy, what can keep us going?

I’m sure each of us has an inspiration that helps keep us upbeat and moving. There are two things that keep me going:

  1. Life has to go on till it stops. Remember Atlanta from the Greek mythology who lost the race to Melanion as she got distracted by the golden apples? You and I are running individual life races. No matter how much the pain and suffering around, we have to continue to run. While we need to pause and ponder where we are heading, we need to continue to run. We need to do all that we do till the last breath. We cannot sit with folded hands and wait for the tempest to calm down. Melancholy need not reign over us. This keeps me going!

2. Life will be over when its purpose is over. When we hear of young people dying in this second wave of the pandemic in India, it sends shivers down the spine. Just before I began typing this blog today, I got the news of a school batch mate (from another school in my city) who lost her battle to COVID. She was a bubbly lady – full of life and all of thirty-five. Such and other similar news over the last few weeks captioned ‘Gone too soon’ over social media often rattle the mind. But, the bottom line remains that the Life-giver takes away the life once its purpose is over. So, I know that when my purpose is over I’ll be gone – whether early in years or in ripe old age. Hence, the questions – Do you know your purpose in this life? Are you fulfilling it/ them?

Preachy though it may sound, this is what keeps me going. The assurance that whether in life or in death I am in God’s plans – in His hands, gives me the gushing energy from within to retain my joy and peace in the midst of the mayhem and continue living and encouraging others to live – one day at a time.


This pandemic and the resulting lockdown has turned us all into hassled adults. We all have that air of stress, tension and sometimes dread around us. And rightly so. We are all living in dangerous times. People close to us are dying, businesses are already dead. The whole burden is too much to carry. My day starts with asking the well being of all the relatives and friends affected by COVID and reading with despair and helplessness the desperate SOS messages from people for either bed or oxygen or other help. Makes me so anxious.

The other day I stepped out of the house with the full gear of mask etc. and from the neighbouring house the 4-year-old twins called out. “Aunty don’t go outside. Corona is sitting outside. It will catch you.” This sure brought a smile to my face because I could picture some cartoon character kind of monster sitting outside the lift door ready to jump on me the moment I step out.

It got me thinking… We, adults, are all caught up in our problems and how our life has gotten topsy turvy. But look around you and see how the kids are coping with it. They are my inspiration these days. Maybe children are more adaptive to the changes around them. As they have moulded themselves to the new lifestyle so well.

Coming back to my neighbours – the toddler twins. They started schooling in lockdown in Nursery class and this is the second year in a row of online learning. They have reached JR Kg without putting a step inside the school building. Which is hilarious. But still, if you speak to them they will tell you about the activities they did at school (online of course), the homework (which is uploaded every day), the friends they made at school. Their excitement about their teachers and notebooks and colours etc. is the same as any other toddler was a few years ago. 

Then there is my sister’s son. He is so diligent about wearing a mask. He makes others follow the rules if by any chance others become a little relaxed. His father had travelled recently and had to be quarantined. He was the one who was the strictest to see that no one steps into his room or he doesn’t step outside.

What do they know about the virus or the lockdown? Everything from their study to leisure has changed but still their sunny disposition and excitement gives me hope.

Let’s move on to a little older children. The pre-teens and teenagers. If you have ever been into an online classroom. You will still be able to recognize the eager beavers – who answer all the questions the teacher asks and the backbenchers who now hide behind switched off cameras. They have plays online, debates and elocution online, they learn music and games also online. These children have adapted so well to the new way of life. 

I will give you a funny example. The schools had no other option but to conduct online exams for their students last year. The school tried all the ways possible to be as strict as possible. But the mischievous students came out with such ingenious ways to cheat. Technology and devices were put to good use. The stricter the school became the more creative the students became. I know it’s not actually funny but ironic. 

But what I mean to say is that they did not leave their usual mischievous ways. They found other outlets for it.

Recently the board exams of Class 10 got cancelled. I was feeling so worried that how my son will get a good score. With this score actually mean anything… How will he get admission to the next class etc? And my son oblivious to my thoughts comes and says “Everyone was scared of Board exams all their school life and look when it was our turn to face the boards; the board exam got scared of us..” I couldn’t stop myself from laughing.

My elder son is busy editing a video with his friends. They all log in from their residences and record video and audio. Sit together online and edit it. They are still finding a way to talk, chill together, come up with ideas and collaborate. 

Seriously when I look at the children of these times I feel sad about how much they are missing out on the normal childhood. But then just look at the smile on their faces and think if they can cope up with such a humungous change in their life… So can we. There is hope…


During these trying times, all of us have experienced the severity of the pandemic. Some lost their jobs, some suffered because of the financial crisis, some suffered because of sickness and some lost their loved ones. There are many other difficulties that people went through which I have not mentioned even. And finding out inspiration among all these situations were really difficult.

In these most difficult times of my life, my eyes straight away go up to my God, the father in heaven and I try to draw all my inspiration from His word, that is from the Bible. But as we decided to write about those inspirations apart from God, I would like to mention them here in this article today.

I stood out to be the most vulnerable person to this virus being a congenital cardiac patient and became invalid from the very onset of this pandemic in March 2020. And moreover, I had just recovered from Pneumonia so the doctors and my family members strictly prohibited me to go out. I even could not go out of the apartment gate to get a biscuit or snacks packet right from there itself. And it has been almost 15 months since when I am being quarantined or isolated or restricted from the outer world.

I had stayed at home a lot from childhood so this isolation really didn’t affect me for the last many months but now I really want to go out though I know I can’t risk it by adventuring out of my house. But I really thank God for those helping hands that helped me and our family in these difficult times. They truly inspired me as they kept risking their lives for me just to help me and my family out.

Asmita went out all the time for marketing, buying things and managed the household chores along with her tuitions but there were things like going to banks, buying medicines urgently, buying stuff that was not available close by were done by those helping hands which I can’t ignore. Those office boys who stay on the same campus in our office apartment helped us all the time. One of them, who went ahead the extra mile by bringing things for other apartment dwellers as well. And his name was in everyone’s mouth, even the old man who works as apartment guard also praised that boy.

We all know how Sonu Sood helped many in this time of need and became an inspiration and a hero for many people in India who were in trouble. Trust me, I see another Sonu Sood in this boy who literally became the only source of help in this trying time.

I also get inspired by Asmita who had helped many people by giving away her money to give them comfort who had been going through financial difficulties. She has a lot of fear and insecurity concerning me and my health yet she never back out when it came to helping someone in this time. And I watched all of these amazing people helping others as I sat helpless and unable to help anyone. But I also thanked the Lord for all these people around me whom God used to be the inspiration for me and all.

May God bless them all!


Surrounding with the doom and gloom of this pandemic, what’s the most critical thing I have been trying to follow is to cripple all the negativity around and make my home a little space for the happiness to seep through. And how am I doing this is by taking care that there are limits on how much news each one of my family members is consuming. Papa already had COVID and now when he has recovered and I am by his side I am making sure that he stays away from all the negativities around. Be it by snatching the T.V remote out of his hands, taking him at the terrace for a walk, making him see my college photography or by introducing him to my radiation oncology department I am doing it all that it takes.

I’m spending more and more time with my cute little munchkin so that she doesn’t miss her school friends. I read her some stories at night, help her with her syllabus, checks if she would like to share something with me. However, sometimes I feel that I couldn’t be a good sister to her. She has grown so habitual to me that she didn’t take care of her while I left her for my studies. She started watching some horror shows, looked for ghost stories over the internet. And then out of fear when she used to give me late-night calls, I rebuked her each time saying that she must sleep now. If she doesn’t leave her phone and lie down on the bed, I would not talk. I couldn’t believe that she is the same baby sister of mine. How strong she used to be! Today when I look into her eyes I can sense the fear. She looks terrified when I leave her alone at night even for a few minutes. She had been secretly crying for me. She feels once I leave for my college, she and her stuffed Mr Bear would be all alone. So I’m trying to make the best use of my time when I am around her. I’m trying to give her all the love that she wishes to have.

She and mommy love cooking so I’m taking the lessons from both of them. From trying out chocolate Oreo cake, white sauce pasta, dalgona coffee, cold cocoa, pancakes, hot chocolate, burger, bread pizza to actually cooking rajma recipe, dahi fry, some vegetable stuff, and pullaw I had learnt quite a lot.

Besides, there are times when I feel like emptiness is taking a toll on me. I feel I am happier when I am at work. But not everything goes the way, you want it to be. This pandemic has turned everything upside down. My postings have been cancelled, classes went online, academic session suffered. I even lost touch with a few people whom I will not get to see once I return to my college. My college fresher’s party got cancelled, my batch mates, a few relatives and the hospital staff with whom I had been working with turned out covid positive, someone from the family died. Plus, there have been a few things over the people and the relationships that I can’t get out of my head. I should have not been introspecting and thinking about them much.

So to combat all these, I have been trying to be friends with radiation physics, my anatomy, physiology and biochemistry books. I have also been writing some random letters mostly to my own self except for the one that I wrote to my teacher expressing my gratitude for him, I have been reading some really nice self-help books like You can Win, The Secret, The Power, The Magic to name a few. I have also been taking my 28 days of the magic challenge seriously that makes me feel gratitude deeply. Each day I get up I follow the magic ritual and share it with a few people wishing that it helps them too. I am trying to look for positivity in every situation, checking on a few people if they are really doing fine, helping mommy with some household stuff and watching some T.V shows with her, playing online chess, listening to some good music especially the Krishna flute music I can’t sleep without at times.

So, this was all about how I am doing in this pandemic. My fellow readers would love to hear from you in the comment section. Stay safe! Stay blessed! And do take care that this too shall pass.


Amid the second wave of the pandemic, we have been witnessing a lot of overwhelming incidents. Some of us have lost our loved ones to the new disease, while many of us are struggling to cope up with the capricious events that are taking place all around us. Just when I thought I am not going to visit any news websites, in order to refrain myself from the negativity, I came across a few incidents that restored my faith in humanity.

Haryana: A thief, who allegedly fled with 1,700 doses of COVID-19 vaccine in Haryana’s Jind, returned the bag. The thief returned the bag with a note that read, “Sorry pata nahi tha corona ki dawai hai.” The note was attached to the bag full of vaccines.

The internet was full of praises for the thief’s noble gesture. He committed a crime by stealing, but he returned the medicines, knowing that these would save lives.

Gujarat: Hours after losing their mothers, two doctors in Gujarat, despite the emotional setback, were back to perform their duties at a time when India is witnessing a rapid increase in coronavirus cases.

Losing a close one is so devastating that it takes time to come out of the grief. Yet, for these frontline heroes, Dr Shikha Patel and Dr Rahul Parmar, their devotion to their duties is just remarkable, as they returned back to work, just hours after cremation.

Ghaziabad: “Manav seva, param dharam” (service to humanity is the highest religion) is the core mantra that has been driving Ghaziabad Gurdwara Parbandhak Committee (GGPC) vice-president Gurpreet Singh as he has come out with a unique initiative of “Oxygen langar” to help Covid-19 patients amid rising cases across the country.

Most of us are aware of the shortage of oxygen in hospitals in the current scenario, and groups like these have become life-saviour for many.

Bangalore: Volunteers help ease the burden on the health care system. Be it in helping senior citizens get vaccinated, finding beds for patients with severe COVID-19 symptoms or taking care of those recovering from COVID-19, volunteers are at the forefront in the fight against the pandemic.

Many citizens have turned into good Samaritans, by coming out to help the patients and their relatives. Their little help has reduced a great burden on the hospitals.

Pakistan: Pak trust offers ambulance fleet to India in Covid crisis, writes to Modi

Speaking to The Indian Express over the phone, Faisal Edhi (44), Managing Trustee of the foundation, said that his late father Abdul Sattar Edhi had started the foundation way back in 1951 and currently it is having a fleet of 1,800 ambulances running across Pakistan. Faizal Edhi has roots in India but moved to Pakistan during the partition.

No matter how discord our relations are, such a message from our neighbouring country indeed proves that humanity is above all.

Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive.





Early this week, one of my husband’s very close friend (turned sister) lost her life to Covid. Not only did she die but even her unborn twins died along with her. She got pregnant at the age of 37 via IVF after trying to get pregnant naturally for the last 5-6 years. I felt extremely broken with this news. We had spent the week before hysterically trying to get her help for ICU, plasma donor, blood donors but all in vain. 

There are many such stories going around each day. Citizens of the nation have desperately taken to social media begging for beds, medicines, oxygen cylinders etc. The healthcare system of our nation is crumbling down under the pressure of this virus. Doctors are having to choose between many critical patients when an ICU bed is empty knowing very well that the rest of critical patients will not make it. 

I have always been very fond of reading war novels and today I feel that I am living war now. The attack could come in anytime on my family and I might have to leave everything to help them. The usual gratitude affirmations have so much deep meaning and connection now – “Thank You Universe for my good health. Thank You Universe for another beautiful day that I am getting to live.” These affirmations are now desperate prayers to the God and Universe. 

What do I do to keep myself going?? 

I must admit that I break down many times in a day. Every time a news of a relative pours in, the fear grows. But every single I take time to center myself and reaffirm to myself that me and my family is safe in our homes. I reaffirm to myself that we need to stay home to stay safe. Even though there are no symptoms for anybody in the house, I run around the house with thermometers and oxymeters checking the vitals. And once all turns out to be normal, I thank the Universe again. 

Keeping my gratitude affirmations always running in my head on an endless loop helps me immensely stay calm and relaxed in middle of this havoc. Meditating at the end of the day further helps get on with life. 

Keeping a healthy schedule

Another thing that I do is to ensure that I and my family have a healthy day to day schedule. It is important to stay active and working throughout the day so that negative thoughts don’t make their way permanently. Even on weekends, I have a list of TODO’s that I make sure to complete. Staying all the time at home is not easy especially with a 6-year-old who is always getting bored. 

Also, a healthy schedule of eating fruits, dry fruits, enough proteins, multivitamins, zinc etc. helps keep me on the toes. Unlike the lockdown of 2020, I am not making exotic dishes or baking different kinds of cakes – instead, I am busy extracting fresh fruit juices and cooking other healthy alternatives. 

Even on the days, I hear of a death, I give myself time to grieve but I don’t allow myself or my parents or husband to grieve on it the whole day. Fear and grief makes immune system weak further. We need to ensure good mental health along with good physical health. I do this by sticking to our healthy day to day schedules. 


I am so moved by the social media volunteers who are working day and night to save as many lives as possible. I am part of both Bangalore and Dehradun social media groups. Initially, when I joined these FB and Whatsapp groups, I felt really overwhelmed at the number of requests coming in – I was trying to help them all and felt burnt out in no time. Now I do volunteering work only a couple of hours on a weekday and few extra hours on weekends – it is not being selfish but it is to ensure that I stay healthy myself and keeping a healthy environment for my son and parents at home. 

My tips to all the social media volunteers 

  1. Limit the number of hours you spend on volunteering to a number that is comfortable for you given your own family and health conditions.
  2. Pick up one area – ICU beds, oxygen beds, medicines, oxygen cylinders/concentrators, food for volunteering. Once you pick up an area, stick to it. If you have chosen food then don’t start searching for oxygen cylinders or ICU beds. 
  3. Or pick up one patient and try to help that family to the closure of the treatment. Keep following up with the attendants to find out the status of the patient and line of treatment. Find out their needs and try to find leads for them. 
  4. Keep your intention very clear when you are volunteering. If you try to help somebody with a mindset that “nothing is available”, then you won’t be of much value. 
  5. Prayers go a long way. Keep praying that the patient(s) you are trying to help finds the right treatment and gets healthy in no time. 

The spirit of humanity that I see today really keeps me going. People are helping each other beyond their capacity. With this volunteering work in Dehradun, I have reconnected with so many of my schoolmates and college-mates and met so many other humble souls who are doing all that they can. This work really grounds me and is an extremely humbling experience. 

Keep the news from Media limited to just news

These days when I hear the news about ICU beds scam or medicine scams or black marketing of vaccines, it makes me extremely angry. But again I keep the negative news really limited to just reading the headlines so that I am informed and it helps me in my volunteering work. I do not purposely read the whole news because it makes me negative. It takes a lot of will power to not blame the authorities or governments and curse these people who are taking selfish advantage of the situation – but I use all my energy to ensure that I do not give in. 

Take me-time out everyday

Do something for your own entertainment every single day. I do the following

  1. Watch comedy shows/movies.
  2. Follow some series with meaningful stories.
  3. Read books.
  4. Do different DIY projects and paintings.
  5. Shop online
  6. Watch motivational videos of different life coaches
  7. Play with my son with different kinds of games

Just have fun for a few hours in each day. Keep your grief and sadness away for a while and just live life the way it is supposed to be lived. 

Wishing all my readers a very good health and praying for my nation!