*A group of college going girls involved in flesh trade to support / sport a lavish lifestyle.
- A techie commits suicide as he was unable to cope up with the pressure of credit card bills.
*Gang involved in card frauds, ATM thefts busted, revealed it was an attempt to make a quick buck.
These examples may not be some recent news but definitely something we come across quite often nowadays. A bitter and harsh reality, strong enough to make us experience Depression and question “WHY?”
Reason is simple : Our inability to find satiation and curb our “UN”wanted desires. Our incompetence in restricting our fingers from swiping left and right and to be finally get hit at the centre. We are getting carried away by fancy statements from our films “life is now; eat, drink, spend and enjoy!” – so we take “spend” quite seriously😁. We are unable to restrict our minds from falling to the rosy advertisements promising easy EMIs and hands on easy plastic money. Compulsive buyers we have become, repulsive to the thoughtfulness and impulsive in making descions.
A small question: We feel so proud of our generation for we think that “we think and question”. We go deep into any subject matter before accepting it as a gospel truth. But despite that our so called knowledgeable generation is not happy. What could be the reason? Our direction less blind run behind maintenance of LIFESTYLE. We want brands in our kitty which we could flaunt to others. From the slippers we wear to the school our kids shall go; from furniture at our home to accessories we adorn – brands matter! To what extent? To an extent that we started feeling that if we lag behind someone in brand knowledge or sporting a particular lifestyle we won’t be respected. And to garner that dubious respect we not only spend but spend unmindfully even if it means borrowing/ begging or stealing (it’s a general expression, don’t get me wrong 😊). A simple scenario we must understand: Would we be respected by the society we live in if they know that all the glitter they saw is actually hollow from inside? Would the people we want to flaunt our lifestyle in front of come to our rescue if the creditors knock at our doors with insults? Then what’s the use of all this frivolous vanity? On contrary our precedors were in quite a happy space, don’t believe me? Look at our parents, grandparents – satiation was the thumb rule.
An algorithm we shall follow to restrict our headless thoughts (read wants) before they turn us either victims or nefarious:
- Do I need this?
- Can I postpone this want?
- Can I afford this?
- To what extent my savings are getting affected?
This is very much required and very much in conformity to our “logical” thought process (sadly we are refraining from this). Our generation must remember that
- Life is more precious than Lifestyle.
- Price tags won’t determine our value, had it been so even the scamsters would be regarded as greats for the brands they flaunt.ĺ
- We have to depict a right path for our successors for they are closely watching us. Therefore use brains before using your fingers to swipe 😁.
- Save a portion of income before spending, this is our responsibility towards our future for its unfathomable.
A contradictory argument: Many might say if a man doesn’t desire higher than he wouldn’t have witnessed so much progress, he wouldn’t work hard. True indeed! But the problem lies in the direction of the hard work. On one hand we have great businessmen who desired higher and worked hard for not only their emancipation but provided a source of income for many and on the other hand we have scamsters who in order to make quick money are working really hard to invent new ways to cheat people and rob them of their hard earned money. And the world definitely hosts the second category in higher proportion, am I wrong? So restriction and direction both are mandatory.