WHY DO I FAIL TO ACHIEVE MY DREAM?

Since my childhood, I had the dream to become an Architecture. Whenever I find any huge and modern infrastructure, I stare at it, even today I do that. Almost every other day my dad scolded me for stealing pins, paper clips and staple pins from his work desk and using them for the designing of my cardboard houses. After school and at free hours I used to spend time working on it. Modern infrastructures have always marveled me. Then, whenever any elderly person questioned me what do you want to become, my answer was “I want to be an Architecture”.

My three childhood dreams were – Will build huge modern buildings, will go for a cruise journey and my first international destination will be Thailand to see white elephants and then to The States. Though in the course of time I didn’t become an architecture but my first International flight was to Bangkok and Chiang Mai; hope the cruise one will fulfill someday.  

In our life, every day we dream colourful dreams and make fancy wishes. When a black shiny Lamborghini overtakes, we peep-out from our SUV and silently whisper within, “I wish I had”. At times we find attractive couples on road and silently urge “Aww…they are ‘Made for Each Other’, wish I have”. We visit our Elite friend house, we see his luxurious four-bed apartment and starts dreaming for such a posh apartment. Though we don’t need such an apartment still we either think about it or do everything on earth to get it. Alas… often much of our dreams never fulfill and we start cursing our life on earth.

We dream colourful dreams and always strive to bring it to reality. And, it is good! Even before a child takes birth his parents start dreaming about his future. They say (especially the fathers) my son will be an engineer, my son will be a doctor, so on and so forth. Yet sometimes we find our dreams won’t go our way and we start regretting.

Here the biggest question arises – WHY DO I FAIL TO ACHIEVE MY DREAM?

IS IT WRONG TO DREAM BIG?

No, not at all! In fact, it is our dream that generates the passion in our heart to achieve it. It is that passion which excites us even to go through many trials to achieve our dream. But often this passion and eagerness for the achievement of our dreams become uncontrollable. We start compromising with our ethics and morals. Finally, we had to pay a HIGH PRICE!

The Bible says,

Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked.

A man reaps what he SOWS…”

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5 thoughts on “WHY DO I FAIL TO ACHIEVE MY DREAM?

  1. I have found that those dreams we have as children are part of the reason we came to this lifetime. I am sorry life got in the way and you didn’t become an architect. May you be blessed and live a long and happy life.

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    1. Yes, because it is the pure childhood passion that pushes us to work hard for the fulfilment of our dreams.
      Alongside, God, being our Creator has created us with a DEFINITE PURPOSE and the fulfilment of that Unique Purpose gives meaning to our existence on earth. My childhood dream of becoming an Architecture didn’t fulfil but I am grateful to God for it. Now, I am very sure it was not for which I am created!
      If I would be there today, I may not be here today.
      Thanks for the blessings, I bless you too.
      Thanks for reading and appreciating.

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  2. Good one!!!! When I started reading, it was like echoing my thoughts (from 3rd paragraph)…. Thank you for a good blog. Wish you all the very best for your future.

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