Plenty of emotions
flooding the thoughts
hard to let go the feelings
As I cannot see the weakness
the pain that is unexplainable
the suffering that is unavoidable.
Pain is an integral part of any disease. Pain can be suffered but the pain given to the heart is always unbearable.
Nowadays there is a growing number of cases of cancer around the world. Yet people are strong enough to survive in some cases. Medicines are just a booster to your confidence, the main cure is only through love and care.
Nothing can beat the love and care given to the patient in curing an illness. The caregiver who is the closest to the patient must always ensure to give the best comfort they can at any point of time. Trusting and gaining confidence in life lets even the worst conditions become better.
I remember a boy from my school days, with whom I had not acquainted much. Years later even when I moved from one school to another, I had being in touch with many of my old friends. Unanticipated I remembered this kid in a conversation with my friend. She conveyed that he was suffering from cancer. It was a shock to me, as for me he was the brightest kid I had ever met. I was quite disturbed, yet a prayer evokes from my heart for him. Years passed, whenever I hear about someone suffering from cancer, this kid from my school comes into my mind. A very pale young kid who was very studious. Later I came to know he did not survive, but yes he did his exams excellently and passed with a good percentage. For a moment I felt so proud of him, as he did work hard even when he was in pain.
The struggles he had gone through, I could picture it, but never knew the pain. It was his mere confidence that took him ahead in life until is dreams were achieved.
One has to be hopeful in life to overcome all the obstacles in it. Hope is the only elixir of life. To bring in hope to a traumatized person is rather a difficult objective, yet not impossible.
“He is suffering because he did it”
“He is suffering because he is punished for his wrongdoing”
“Oh poor, she has cancer, she should have been careful”
All the illnesses are uninvited guests, we do not bring into us just because we enjoy suffering. It is something I wish to tell anyone who would love to quote the above sentences. Life is quite unpredictable. Hence who gets what is not in our hands. It is our duty as mere people to be with the patient, help them fight it.
The sufferer needs a healthy surrounding with healthy minds around. Only a healthy and sound mind can cure any worst illness. During the chemotherapy, they lose their confidence, their health, and their mental strengths too. Pain clouds their thought process, it is then we need to be around to hold them together. Let them not break down and show that life is not a cake walk.
Show that there are many who need them…
Give them healthy food to eat…
Keep their mind busy…
Let them know that “Hope is the anchor of life”…
So never lose it…