Yesterday, I talked about learning from life through the people we meet in our life journey. And today in my Final Note I will talk about the other two ways through which we get the opportunity to learn.
So, we learn from –
- The persons we meet
- The mistakes we make
- The situations we go through
Learning from life through the mistakes we make
A small child wants freedom to execute what he or she wants to do without knowing what is good for him or her. Eventually, he or she does some mistakes, suffers pain and runs to his/her parents crying and being consoled by them. Next time he or she becomes careful about the mistake he/she had committed earlier. Building of different personality traits in the kids shows up in the later stage when they start learning from their past mistakes.
Usually teenagers want to taste and test everything that comes their ways. They don’t like suggestions and they don’t like restrictions around them. They sometime don’t share what wrong had happened to them with their elders. But they try to solve them through all by themselves or through friends. Sometimes the results are fatal.
Most of us learn from our mistakes.
We fail in a particular plan then learn to be ready with other alternatives to tackle a similar problem and avoid failure in future. We suffer a heart break and then correct our ways of dealing with people next time. We fail in our exams and study well for the next time. But in some cases we find ourselves in soup. Because we are bound to accept certain things in life and try to adjust to that mistake we had committed.
That is why the wise people always learn from the mistakes of others and change their approaches and choices.
Learning from life during the situations we go through
I had a very bad fight with my wife. Because she was angry and I was harsh and argumentative. And the saga never stopped for few hours.
The learning point is – “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
I knew it but didn’t apply it when it was needed.
This was just a mere example for us to understand what I mean by events or situations that we sometimes have to go through and we get some lessons to learn out of them. There are many other occasions when we have to go through serious pain and sufferings without we being directly responsible for them. But when the transition period is over we collect some pearls of leanings from our life by reflecting on the past.
Life situations like accidents, deaths, suicides, sicknesses, failures, joblessness and even situations like divorces etc., are the examples through which we go, people go. When we reflect on them later in our life we get to learn different lessons out of them.
“God breaks us to make us.”
We need to hold unto this fact for our moral boosting and encouragement forever.
Avinash‘s The Formula “L 3” applies to this segment of my description very well. In the school of life we have to learn from various situations and events that we face every now and then on our journey till death.
What should I say in my conclusion?
Yes, as Aastha said, “Every day of life is a gift, indulge in it and make the most you can while you can. Have an open mind and a honest heart.” Then we can really learn from our life.
“…suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us.”
So, don’t be disappointed but keep hoping and keep learning…
Good night and stay blessed!!!