There is a big difference between ‘a thought of having physical or sexual relationship with the woman’ and ‘just getting attracted to the physical beauty of a woman.’ The natural instinct of man to get attracted to a woman is for choosing life partner which is not needed anymore for the married men. So as a married man I simply cannot have both the kinds of thoughts in my mind at all.
LOVE: Develops gradually overtime. Accepts the other person completely,along with his/her imperfections. Grows deeper with time. Is much more than mere physical attraction. Is energizing, not draining. Is considerate, not jealous. Is built on the foundation of trust. Love involves being in love with a person. LOVE NEVER FAILS
The sexual energy emerges with great force at the onset of adolescence which remains dormant at childhood. Due to the sudden and vigorous functioning of sexual glands, sexual organs grow and the sex instincts reach their peak. Both boys and girls become extremely self-conscious and children who are antagonistic to the opposite sex start showing great interest and attraction towards the opposite sex.
Attraction here deals with something that happens between two individuals and that can be considered a step further than friendship but later on leads to two broad pathways, Love and Lust.