Yesterday, I was watching TV, where a doctor was hit by a person on his face because he spoke something bad regarding the man’s wife. How come a doctor was hit? The man had really respected the doctor before then why did he hit him. It’s because of the attitude of that doctor became wicked.
Nobody sees the face but the attitude we display through our words, walks, shaking of heads and hands making dirty gestures.
On the other hand, there are cases where we find some extraordinary people get praises and Jadu ki Jhhappi (hugs) because of their polite and gentle attitude.
The other day, #Shiny (Avishikta) timely mentioned about being Aggressive and Amicable. Are we aggressive or amicable?
The book of Proverbs says, “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” It’s all about the attitude of a person behind that answer or speech or the actions displayed.
There’s dissension in the families because of our wrong attitudes. Wives! Do you have a nagging attitude? Husbands! Do you have a very casual or laid back attitude towards the household stuff? Stop it. Think again. Re-examine. Change your attitude at once for the benefit of your family.
Trust me, as I said earlier attitude is our face. It is the face of our behavior, our own self. We are all recognized or identified by our attitudes.
Tomorrow, on the mega Saturday, we will see how ‘a person’s attitude’ can benefit him/her and takes him/her up to a respectable position.
Till then good bye and stay blessed.